Vem är jag?

10 Dec

Jag gjorde det här testet nån gång i höstas, har ni också?


Jag är en INFJ. Introverted: 56%, Intuitive: 18%, Feeling: 65%, Judging: 20%, Assertive: 9%.

INFJs indeed share a very unique combination of traits: though soft-spoken, they have very strong opinions and will fight tirelessly for an idea they believe in. They are decisive and strong-willed, but will rarely use that energy for personal gain – INFJs will act with creativity, imagination, conviction and sensitivity not to create advantage, but to create balance. Egalitarianism and karma are very attractive ideas to INFJs, and they tend to believe that nothing would help the world so much as using love and compassion to soften the hearts of tyrants.”

Stora ord. Soft-spoken, strong-willed, jovars. Help the world, love and compassion, här blir det nästan lite flower power så det vetesjutton om det är mitt i prick. Men visst, jag funderar gärna på tillståndet i samhället och världen. Jag brukar bara inte stå på barrikaderna så fort det rapporteras om orättvisor någonstans.


Men det som verkligen är spot on och så jäkla mig är rubrikerna Strengths and Weaknesses. Under Weaknesses:


  • SensitiveWhen someone challenges or criticizes INFJs’ principles or values, they are likely to receive an alarmingly strong response. People with the INFJ personality type are highly vulnerable to criticism and conflict, and questioning their motives is the quickest way to their bad side.
  • Extremely PrivateINFJs tend to present themselves as the culmination of an idea. This is partly because they believe in this idea, but also because INFJs are extremely private when it comes to their personal lives, using this image to keep themselves from having to truly open up, even to close friends. Trusting a new friend can be even more challenging for INFJs.
  • Perfectionistic INFJs are all but defined by their pursuit of ideals. While this is a wonderful quality in many ways, an ideal situation is not always possible – in politics, in business, in romance – and INFJs too often drop or ignore healthy and productive situations and relationships, always believing there might be a better option down the road.

Känslig och väldigt privat, using this image to to keep themselves from truly open up, even to close friends.


Om Romantic relationships:

When it comes to romantic relationships, INFJs take the process of finding a partner seriously. Not ones for casual encounters, people with the INFJ personality type instead look for depth and meaning in their relationships. INFJs will take the time necessary to find someone they truly connect with – once they’ve found that someone, their relationships will reach a level of depth and sincerity that most people can only dream of.”

Getting to that point can sometimes be a challenge for potential partners, especially if they are the impatient type, as INFJs are often perfectionistic and picky. People with this personality type aren’t easily talked into something they don’t want, and if someone doesn’t pick up on that, it’s a trespass that is unlikely to be forgiven, particularly in the early stages of dating.


Jag börjar ana varför jag lever ett evigt singelliv och varit ensam i så många år. Ingen duger någonsin. Eller så tror jag att jag själv inte duger. Jag spolar ner förhållandena i toaletten redan innan de hinner börja överhuvudtaget. Perfektionism parad med känslighet, rädsla att bli avvisad eller att själv tvingas avvisa. Inte konstigt att det går evigheter mellan mina “närkontakter”.

Det är tryggt och säkert att leva som jag gör, man slipper mycket skit, man behöver aldrig bli avvisad för man kan inte bli avvisad när man inte är med någon. Det går inte att bli lurad. Eller sårad. Eller dumpad.


Tryggt och säkert. Och så förbannat, helvetes tråkigt.


2 Responses to “Vem är jag?”

  1. Ileea December 11, 2014 at 12:36 pm #

    Jag gjorde det just, för skojs skull. Visar sig att jag är samma bokstavskombination som du, om även med andra kategorier och/eller procenttal!

    • lostmord December 11, 2014 at 6:33 pm #

      Ser man på, en INFJ till! Great minds think alike 😀 Det är ju tydligen en väldigt ovanlig personlighetstyp, så det finns inte så många av oss.

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